By: Catherine

Catherine — Fri, 09 Mar 2012 07:32:46 +0000

College is definitely an interesting time. I just started my freshman year at BYU-I in Fall semester of 2011. I’m originally from California, so Idaho is a bit far away. Where I live now isn’t like Laurie’s two hour drive from home; it’s about a sixteen hour drive. Originally, I wasn’t sure if I wanted to go to an out of state school. It would be more expensive, and I’ve never been much of a traveler. However, I decided to make a leap of faith and try something new. On the drive up, I expected my first few weeks to be frightening and I expected to be incredibly homesick, but my experiences here have been far from depressing. My roommates have been loving, my classes have been uplifting, and the atmosphere is invigorating. It’s a wonderful experience to finally be on your own and to be independent in your decision making. If you’re of the Latter-day Saint faith, I would highly recommend going to an LDS college. The secular classes are challenging enough to make you think on your own and reason for yourself. The religion classes are remarkable for spiritual development. The people here are amazing! Finally, everyone at your school has the same religious standards (most of them, at least), and will respect you for the decisions and promises you’ve made. I didn’t go on many dates in high school and didn’t expect to have that change as dramatically as it has. There really is a match for everyone. I’ve also become healthier because I’ve been able to choose the food I buy and workout at the gym that’s so close to my apartment. It’s amazing that all the things I was worried about missing from home have all been found at this school.
If you’re a Latter-day Saint who wants to go to a non-LDS college, I wouldn’t doubt it too would be an incredible experience. I’ve lived in places where I was the only Mormon at my school. It can be hard, but it’s always worthwhile to practice your standards and be unique. Like Laurie said, you have to remember to be open-minded to others and their beliefs. There’s no harm in listening to others opinions. You can listen and not be defensive. You can hear someone’s opinion without having to agree with it. The same applies for students going to an LDS college as well. You will meet people who have higher or lower standards than you. It’s best to listen to their opinion, but follow what your own conscience tells you.
Going to college (literally moving out of your parents house and going to school) is an experience every young adult deserves. It’s not as scary, or as hard, as it seems. When you’re open-minded, it’s actually better than you can imagine. What’s most important is to have a good attitude. Be optimistic that you will achieve in your classes, love your roommates, and date all the guys (or girls!) around.
My best tip would be to buy a planner! Time management is the best skill you can acquire. Don’t forget to do your homework, exercise, and have fun!

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By: Catherine