Comments on: Infertility and God’s Plan for Me

By: Patty Sampson

Patty Sampson — Wed, 23 Aug 2017 23:08:26 +0000

In reply to Imani Holness. You're right. Since this time I have learned more about motherhood, and see how easy it was for me to judge back then. I've met some amazing moms who are former drug addicts, and sometimes even living in shelters. Many times motherhood helps us grow past those times. Sometimes those trials make us better mothers. I am so glad God helps us keep learning through our experiences in this life.

By: Imani Holness

Imani Holness — Sat, 19 Aug 2017 16:01:21 +0000

Bless you, it’s a wonderful thing that in a time of such grief you were able to reach out to God and even get closer to him, learning his purpose for your life. Any woman could relate to the anger you felt, however we can’t judge people because of their circumstances,who knows why God allows certain people to conceive and others to not?having a drug addiction doesn’t make you an unfit mother your ability to care for your child adequatly or inadequately determines your abilitys as a parent/mother.i mention this because God spoke to me about this very same thing the other day and my attitude and the fact that being a Christian didn’t give me the right to pass a judgment on who is or isn’t worthy of conceiving a child. It’s the as someone saying that you are a terrible person because God won’t bless you with a child which would be a wrong and unfair statement. (I don’t know what lead me to say all of this but im sure God does.

By: britt

britt — Mon, 07 Jul 2014 11:48:08 +0000

I’m glad you found healing. It is so true that God has a plan for each of us and only his infinite mind can put all of the pieces together with the timing. After my first miscarriage, I learned so much about just how Jesus understands me, even in my most womanly moments. Suddenly the scriptures about how desperate He was for us to accept His atonement and eternal life…made a different kind of sense to me as I wished to give life myself.