I’ve been studying recently in an instructional booklet put out by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (sometimes called the Mormon church because of our belief and use of The Book of Mormon). The instructional booklet is called Improving Gospel Teaching. It is a guide to improve gospel teaching moments, usually in the classroom but also in all other locations.
Perhaps it should not be surprising to find so much information within the booklet about and for parents, when overall the text is essentially geared for teachers within the Church. Because after all, parents are the teachers with greatest impact upon the main body of the Church.
Here is a paragraph from the chapter “Gospel Teaching in the Church”:
“God has given His children their agency. Agency is the power to choose good or evil — to either partake of the plan of redemption or reject it.
“To be able to choose good and partake of the plan of redemption, we must learn of the Savior and the doctrines of His gospel. He has commanded, ‘Learn of me, and listen to my words’ (D&C 19:23). In response to this commandment, individual members of the Church should study the scriptures and the teachings of latter-day prophets, ponder and pray about them, and apply them in their lives” (”Gospel Teaching in the Church,” Improving Gospel Teaching, p. 1).
What a simple path this lays out for us as parents — to teach our children to:
- Study the scriptures,
- Study the teachings of the latter-day prophets,
- Ponder and pray about them,
- and Apply them in our lives.
Yet these things are not likely to happen consistently for our families if we as parents do not lay out a plan to achieve them. That’s when I began thinking about my family’s daily activities. First, am I carving out time each day for family scripture study? It need not be hard, scripture study need not be lengthy, it need not be complicated. It simply needs to happen. The word of God can be read for free online or can be inexpensively purchased. How we obtain our books of scripture does not matter as much as making sure we do and then read daily from them.
Second, what about studying the word of God through His living prophets? This could be a great Sunday afternoon activity as a family to visit this link to hear the modern prophets speak — even if it were only one discourse a week!
Third, have I carved a simple time out of my day to ponder and pray on these things I’ve read? Have I done the same for my family? A family that prays together stays together, or so the saying goes. Why not start each day with family prayer, everyone kneeling and one person offering their thanks, praises and requests of God? And then end the day each evening the same way. There is a sweet spirit that enters family life for each family who pursues this activity. The Lord waits to bless us and quickly responds to requests for His aid.
Following through with these first three steps mentioned above ensures that we are in the process of applying God’s words in our lives. And what transformations begin to happen! I’ve seen it in the lives of others; I’ve felt it in my own family’s life. As Elder Bruce R. McConkie, a previous apostle for the Mormon church, said:
“Each person must learn the doctrines of the gospel for himself. No one else can do it for him. Each person stands alone where gospel scholarship is concerned; each has access to the same scriptures and is entitled to the guidance of the same Holy Ghost; each must pay the price set by a divine Providence if he is to gain the pearl of great price” (Doctrines of the Restoration: Sermons and Writings of Bruce R. McConkie, ed. Mark L. McConkie [1989], 234).
Truly each one has the responsibility to learn of God and of His manifest goodness. And what a joy it is as a parent to be the guide for our children in that process!